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While casual attire to you might mean a tank top with ripped jeans and Birkenstocks, that probably isn’t what your host intended when she put “casual attire” on the invitation. Casual attire is most often defined by what it is not, rather than what it should be. Because the term is up for interpretation, consider who is hosting the party, the location and the time of day when you choose the right outfit. Showing up underdressed is a faux pas, but you also don’t want to call attention to yourself by being overly done up.
Types of Casual
Make sure the term “casual” attire is not qualified in some way. Plain old casual attire can mean anything goes – even jeans and tennis shoes. "Dressy casual," however, implies that jeans and tees are not welcome – but khakis, sundresses and sleeveless tops are okay. "Business casual" means you can lose the tie, jacket or pantyhose – but you still need to look professional and neat.
Location
If the casual event is at your friend’s apartment, you can probably wear jeans and a tank and fit right in. If the event is at your bosses’ home, you are best off wearing something slightly nicer – perhaps tailored slacks with a conservative blouse or a flowing skirt with a fitted sweater. An outdoor barbecue may imply shorts and tee shirts while casual attire at a sit-down restaurant may call for long pants and a nice shirt.
Type of Event
You might be able to get away with jeans at some casual events, but a casual wedding or a casual office party are not among them. For a casual wedding, wear a sundress or separates such as a skirt and a peasant blouse. For a casual office party, go for tailored pants and a classy blouse. Accessorize fully, with a belt and pumps. Definitely skip the sneakers and flip flops. An evening casual event usually requires you put a little more care into your outfit. Shorts may be okay during lunchtime at a casual restaurant, but cargo pants or a skirt are probably better in the evening.
Considerations
Tee shirts with slogans, ripped jeans and sweatpants have no place even if your invite specifies “casual” attire. Keep yourself covered too. Casual is not a free-for-all for bare midriffs and micro minis. When in doubt, ask your host what is most appropriate for the event. Ask if she plans specific activities that will give you a clue about what to wear. Consult with other attendees too – they are probably wondering what to wear just as much as you are.
