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Dressing for a housewarming party isn't always easy. Invitations may not suggest proper attire, and sometimes the hosts even give you the dreaded "wear whatever you want" line, which can leave you with a bad case of fashion uncertainty. Never fear -- learning what not to wear to events like housewarming parties can lead you away from bad choices and steer you instead toward the perfect party outfit.
Time and Location Matter
Since your choice of attire depends on the type of party you're going to, let the event details guide you in your fashion choices. A little black dress and heels may look totally appropriate at an evening housewarming soiree with cocktails, but you might look out of place wearing the same getup to an afternoon backyard barbecue. Remember that housewarming parties held during the day often have a more casual vibe than evening events. Also, take the actual house and its homeowners into account. For instance, if the house is modestly priced and your friends are laid back, leave your showy Prada and Gucci pieces in the closet. On the other hand, if you're going to a housewarming party at an actual mansion belonging to your boss, steer clear of cheap duds and kick your look up a notch.
Deciphering the Invite
Pay attention to the actual invite to avoid a fashion blunder. Is it a casual email asking you to pop in on Sunday afternoon, or is it a hand-delivered letter written in calligraphy? Don't show up in jeans and a sweatshirt to a housewarming party if the invitation is letter-pressed on gilded paper and sealed with wax. and don't wear a fancy gown if the invite features cartoon clip art of animals in party hats.
Common Sense Rules
Keep it classy, no matter what kind of housewarming party you're attending. Being invited into someone's new home means showing respect with both your actions and your attire. That means super-sexy club wear is pretty much always a no-no. If your outfit would look at home at a rock concert, don't wear it. Just say "no" to micro-mini skirts and tops that overflow with cleavage. Let the host's new home be the focus, rather than your not-quite-right outfit.
More Advice
Whatever you choose to wear, make sure you're comfortable. Even if an outfit feels appropriate, if it doesn't make you feel good when you look in the mirror, it's probably not the right choice. Also, if you're absolutely stumped, don't be afraid to ask for help. Ask friends for fashion advice, or talk to other people attending the housewarming party and see what they're planning to wear. And bring back-up if you're unsure. Throw a nice fitted jacket or dressy cardigan in the back of your car in case you need to alter your outfit at the last minute.
